1424. Bragging about our lack of dating experience

Guest Posts April 5, 2013Comments

(It’s guest post Friday!  Here’s one from Kristin Cummings.  You can check out her blog here.  If you want to write a guest post for SCL, here’s how!)

Bragging about our lack of dating experience

When I was 22, I remember wondering if turning 30 and having ‘never been kissed’ was still considered cute.

I was seriously worried about it because, at least in my mind, I was well on my way there. Sweet 16 and kiss-less was cute. Maybe even being a college student and saving that smooch for someone special was still sweet. But I was a working college graduate and still a member of the exclusive ‘never been kissed’ club.

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1423. Best baptismal ever.

Misc April 4, 2013Comments

I used to think it would be cool to be baptized in a crick. Not a creek, those are for fancy city folk. I’m talking about a crick. In my head, I imagined gospel singing, sweet tea and some sort of crawfish-type boil. (I am mostly Cajun in my head.)

But then I remembered that cricks are chock full of snakes. So I went the more traditional route and got baptized in a church. Fortunately, though, churches are getting creative with how they do baptisms.

In fact, a few months ago at a church called “Relevant” in Tampa, I saw something I’d never seen before. Below is a photo of it.

That’s right, an above ground pool.

No slide, of course. I’m surprised you even asked. But other than that, it was exactly what it looks like. A big pool.

It was incredibly hard to not go jump into it. The little kid in me wanted to cannonball right in the middle of the sermon.

I could hear it taunting me. “The water is warm. Come on. Who is going to get mad at you? Tell people it was the spirit. Did your inner voice just encourage you to throw the Holy Spirit under the bus? It sure did. But I have faith in you. It would make a great Stuff Christians Like post.”

That last line almost got me, but I’m mature now. I have gray hair and pronounce words correctly and stuff.

So I didn’t.

But it did make me curious. How does your church do baptism? Crick? Pool? Or something else entirely?

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1420. Apologizing after an April Fool’s Day Prank – The Terror Level Color Coded System

Misc April 1, 2013Comments

Pranks aren’t by nature unique to Christianity. That I’m aware of, there’s no recorded history of C.S. Lewis pantsing J.R.R. Tolkien. Pranks by themselves don’t really fit the formula of this site, but apologizing after? Serving penance for a church-related prank that went horribly wrong or even horribly right? That’s us through and through.

But the truth is, you don’t need this post today. You should file it away for tomorrow, the day after April Fool’s Day. If you’re going to pull some shenanigans or tom foolery or perhaps even get in a donnybrook, today is your day. Live it up.

But after, when your youth minister or senior pastor or local reporter stumbles upon the prank you have perpetuated, when like Richard Marx you realize “you should have known better” than to fit that many bees into so small a sleeping bag, you’ll be glad this post so clearly laid out the categories of prank apologies based on the terrol level color coded system the United States used to use.

Category 1: Green – Low Risk Prank
Hey look at that, you stuck some forks in someone’s yard, but you didn’t break them off because that felt too mean and unChristlike. And you called a few people from church and hung up on them when they answered the phone. That’s adorable. This barely requires an apology.
Apology Required: Facebook Status Change
Change your Facebook status to something like, “Sorry about the prank. Hope nobody’s feelings got hurt.” Or “Kids will be kids.”

Category 2: Blue – General Risk Prank
That’s not going to grow back. I’m just saying, when you put that much on at once, and mix it with that other thing, wow, you’re leaving a permanent impression. I mean it’s not that big, but neighbors are going to see it for at least the next six months.
Apology Required: Email
You better send the victim an email. Nothing long, just a few lines about your deep regret for your actions and how your immaturity sometimes gets the better of you, and at the end of the day you both love Jesus, so no hard feelings.

Category 3: Yellow – Significant Risk Prank
Elders are kind of like elephants. They never forget, and I’m pretty sure that guy isn’t going to. Where do you even get those? They’re just so fast and jumpy. I’m assuming you know a guy that knows a guy, but is there any chance that guy knows a guy who can get them out of the elder’s house? It’s not going to be easy because they seem so motivated and reproductive, but maybe we could smoke them out?
Apology Required: Phone Call
Forget the Internet. You’ve entered into real apology time now. Pick up the phone and be ready to outline what you did, as well as the three things you learned from this tragic mistake of a prank you pulled. (If you can’t think of three things, feel free to use one of my go-to lines when I’ve bombed, “Turns out I’m dumb.” I keep learning that lesson, and it’s always a nice way to round out a list.)

Category 4: Orange – High Risk Prank
Yeah, but you knew it was the senior pastor’s house right? I’ve got to assume you did because even the youth minister was in on this one. On a positive note, at least we know the fire department can find his house. And their response time, wow! Very impressive. I told you that was highly flammable, but to hear the fire chief use the phrase “river of lava,” wow. You’re going to need to get a paper route to pay this one back or raise money online or hold a car wash at Chick-fil-A.
Apology Required: Face to Face
This goes beyond a simple phone call. You might need to hand write a note, call ahead to set up the official apology, and then bring over some sort of casserole. This apology is going to be as complicated as the prank was. The general rule for a face-to-face apology is you have to spend three minutes apologizing for every one minute you spent pulling off the prank. So if it took you 30 minutes to do the prank, expect 90 minutes of “sorry” in your future.

Category 5: Red – Severe Risk Prank
The community will heal. I mean we’re a very resilient group of people. We’ve faced hardship before and this, that thing you did to all of us in one fell swoop, we’ll get through that. And the cats will come back someday. They are a proud animal and probably left out of embarrassment more than anything else. They’ll come back. I know they will.
Apology Required: Speech to the Church Congregation
May God have mercy on your soul if you ever have to apologize to the whole congregation from the pulpit. I’ve never had to do this, but if you find yourself in this position, whatever you do, don’t take questions from the crowd. Don’t open the meeting up to Q&A. You are going to come out on the losing end of this one. And I’m not telling you to fake cry, but you might want to fake cry.

Hopefully, this list will make April 2nd easier for all of us that decide to pull a prank on April 1st.

What’s the best prank you ever took part in?

What’s the best prank someone pulled on you?

(This is a throwback post.)

1419. How would you end the Bible TV show?

Misc March 31, 2013Comments

Tonight is the last night of the Bible TV series on the History Channel and I have no idea how they are going to end it.

Do you jump into Revelation?

Do you end with Paul painting a picture of where things are headed?

Do you creatively tie it up with something as unexpected as Noah beginning the series with a recital of history?

If you were Mark Burnett, the guy behind the show, how would you end it?

 

1417. The Up-Sell Guy at the Christian Bookstore

Guest Posts March 29, 2013Comments

(It’s guest post Friday!  Here’s one from Kate Hall.  You can check out her blog here and you can follow her on Twitter.  If you want to write a guest post for SCL, here’s how!)

The Up-Sell Guy at the Christian Bookstore

Have you ever run into the “Up-Sell Guy” at a Christian bookstore?

I ran in to my local Christian Bookstore the other day to buy a greeting card. Here’s how my time at the cash register went:

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1415. Art.

Misc March 27, 2013Comments

When my daughter McRae was 5, she taught me something about art and life.

She had painted a picture using a spilled bit of ink. It looked like she started with a mistake.

I asked her that and she said, “I can make art out of anything.”

I love that thought, and I think that’s what God does with our lives.

When he redeems, he doesn’t duct tape. He doesn’t improve. He isn’t in the business of better.

He does new.

He does beautiful.

He makes art.

I don’t know what part of your life might not feel frame-worthy right now, what part is broken or chipped or worn out. But I do know that we serve a God who makes art out of the broken pieces.

A God who can make art out of anything.

Art