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		<title>By: Randall</title>
		<link>http://www.jonacuff.com/stuffchristianslike/2008/03/87-throwing-the-g-card/comment-page-1/#comment-92577</link>
		<dc:creator>Randall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 20:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Where there&#039;s a &quot;will,&quot; there&#039;s a way.... </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Where there&#039;s a &quot;will,&quot; there&#039;s a way&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: thoughtriver</title>
		<link>http://www.jonacuff.com/stuffchristianslike/2008/03/87-throwing-the-g-card/comment-page-1/#comment-87775</link>
		<dc:creator>thoughtriver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 19:37:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, absolutely, you have to be extremely careful with this one. It is overused and abused. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, absolutely, you have to be extremely careful with this one. It is overused and abused.</p>
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		<title>By: Cindy A.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cindy A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 09:17:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Boy meets Girl: Hi there. I&#039;m will. God&#039;s will. :) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boy meets Girl: Hi there. I&#039;m will. God&#039;s will. <img src='http://www.jonacuff.com/stuffchristianslike/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: stacikristine</title>
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		<dc:creator>stacikristine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 16:47:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a youth pastor that would start dating a girl &quot;because God told him to&quot; and then break up with her &quot;because God told him to.&quot;  It became a big joke.   </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a youth pastor that would start dating a girl &quot;because God told him to&quot; and then break up with her &quot;because God told him to.&quot;  It became a big joke.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 03:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is so true!  Here&#039;s what I say when I feel that God is telling me something... &quot;I&#039;m not sure if its God or me, but I really felt that God impressed this on me...&quot;  Maybe its no better than &quot;God Told Me&quot;, but at least there is room for mistakes.   </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so true!  Here&#039;s what I say when I feel that God is telling me something&#8230; &quot;I&#039;m not sure if its God or me, but I really felt that God impressed this on me&#8230;&quot;  Maybe its no better than &quot;God Told Me&quot;, but at least there is room for mistakes.</p>
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		<title>By: Josh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 21:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I went to a private baptist university here in Texas and that was the first time I saw people use the G card.. it was crazy!! Guys would tell girls they had no chance of landing that &quot;God had told them they were to date!&quot;  HAHAHAHA Ohwell cant argue with God :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went to a private baptist university here in Texas and that was the first time I saw people use the G card.. it was crazy!! Guys would tell girls they had no chance of landing that &quot;God had told them they were to date!&quot;  HAHAHAHA Ohwell cant argue with God <img src='http://www.jonacuff.com/stuffchristianslike/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Matt Gross</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt Gross</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 21:34:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Throwing the G Card is extremely effective as an excuse for your actions given the person you are throwing it at is perceived to believe as you do.  It&#039;s impossible to debate unless you are willing to give in to doubt in your own faith.  Unfortunately this allows justification for anything you want and begs the questions: Did God create man or did man create God? Why does it seem that what someone&#039;s personal God wants often coincides with that person&#039;s own desires (be it based in true desire [what they really want {i.e. God told me to break up/to stay with you.}] or false desire [what they think they should want according to &#039;x&#039; religion&#039;s teachings {i.e. God wants me to spread His word and do missionary work. God wants me to be heterosexual.])?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This type of logic is destructive.  Christian&#039;s see that it is destructive but they are, for the most part, enabling it because their very own faith hinges on the same argument.  Christians &#039;know&#039; what God wants and if they don&#039;t know (which none really do) it is scary for them to admit or even think about it as it means the strength of their faith is at stake.  In hind site Christians use the G Card to explain things for which the true explanation is either unknown (i.e. the cause of the plane crash is still being investigated) or unfathomable (i.e. dropping a bomb on a civilian building with the knowledge that non-violent men, women and children were there), or sometimes in place of reasonable explanation for emphasis.  It takes personal accountability away from the person using the G Card (in their mind and the mind of other fervent believers).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To non-Christians the G Card is ineffective as their faith or lack thereof is not hinged on the basis of the existence of the Christian God and His will.  For the Christians reading this imagine someone who practices Islam making the claim that &quot;Allah told me to take the infidel&#039;s life.  Allah&#039;s will be done.&quot;  Chances are you will call bull$h*t as you don&#039;t believe in Islam.  The reasoning that Allah is the cause of a murder not only doesn&#039;t make sense since Allah doesn&#039;t exist but it looks as if that person is delusional as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The best outcome of using such empty justification would be giving a good person a bad reason to do something good where a good reason is actually available (i.e. God wants me to help the poor. God stopped my hand from striking her).  The only problem with having positive outcomes due to the G Card is that people become dependent on God (which is what organized religion in general wants to achieve) and attribute more and more experiences to God&#039;s will.  &quot;Use me God. I can&#039;t do this without you.  I surrender my will to you.&quot;  Associating things that you do with a motivation stemming from your God isn&#039;t just irresponsible; it&#039;s more addictive than the most addictive drugs on earth.  Viewing God as &#039;on your side&#039; is self-serving, naive and not to mention rude (as non-believers are held in contempt by default).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems like many people who commented experienced the G Card in a similar context by someone else using it to justify a decision without having to think of real justification.  It makes me wonder if laziness, ignorance or fear is the most common instigator of the G Card; or for that matter the organized side of spirituality?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Throwing the G Card is extremely effective as an excuse for your actions given the person you are throwing it at is perceived to believe as you do.  It&#39;s impossible to debate unless you are willing to give in to doubt in your own faith.  Unfortunately this allows justification for anything you want and begs the questions: Did God create man or did man create God? Why does it seem that what someone&#39;s personal God wants often coincides with that person&#39;s own desires (be it based in true desire [what they really want {i.e. God told me to break up/to stay with you.}] or false desire [what they think they should want according to &#39;x&#39; religion&#39;s teachings {i.e. God wants me to spread His word and do missionary work. God wants me to be heterosexual.])?</p>
<p>This type of logic is destructive.  Christian&#39;s see that it is destructive but they are, for the most part, enabling it because their very own faith hinges on the same argument.  Christians &#39;know&#39; what God wants and if they don&#39;t know (which none really do) it is scary for them to admit or even think about it as it means the strength of their faith is at stake.  In hind site Christians use the G Card to explain things for which the true explanation is either unknown (i.e. the cause of the plane crash is still being investigated) or unfathomable (i.e. dropping a bomb on a civilian building with the knowledge that non-violent men, women and children were there), or sometimes in place of reasonable explanation for emphasis.  It takes personal accountability away from the person using the G Card (in their mind and the mind of other fervent believers).</p>
<p>To non-Christians the G Card is ineffective as their faith or lack thereof is not hinged on the basis of the existence of the Christian God and His will.  For the Christians reading this imagine someone who practices Islam making the claim that &quot;Allah told me to take the infidel&#39;s life.  Allah&#39;s will be done.&quot;  Chances are you will call bull$h*t as you don&#39;t believe in Islam.  The reasoning that Allah is the cause of a murder not only doesn&#39;t make sense since Allah doesn&#39;t exist but it looks as if that person is delusional as well.</p>
<p>The best outcome of using such empty justification would be giving a good person a bad reason to do something good where a good reason is actually available (i.e. God wants me to help the poor. God stopped my hand from striking her).  The only problem with having positive outcomes due to the G Card is that people become dependent on God (which is what organized religion in general wants to achieve) and attribute more and more experiences to God&#39;s will.  &quot;Use me God. I can&#39;t do this without you.  I surrender my will to you.&quot;  Associating things that you do with a motivation stemming from your God isn&#39;t just irresponsible; it&#39;s more addictive than the most addictive drugs on earth.  Viewing God as &#39;on your side&#39; is self-serving, naive and not to mention rude (as non-believers are held in contempt by default).</p>
<p>It seems like many people who commented experienced the G Card in a similar context by someone else using it to justify a decision without having to think of real justification.  It makes me wonder if laziness, ignorance or fear is the most common instigator of the G Card; or for that matter the organized side of spirituality?</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 18:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I took a Rhetoric and Persuasion class in college talking about the different techniques people use in arguments, etc. Our textbook actually listed using God in an argument in the same category as utter stupidity..lol.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love it! Great point!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I took a Rhetoric and Persuasion class in college talking about the different techniques people use in arguments, etc. Our textbook actually listed using God in an argument in the same category as utter stupidity..lol.</p>
<p>Love it! Great point!</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;When someone plays the G-card about something that benefits them, or about something they really want to do, or about something that makes them look good... Not so much.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;EXACTLY. Can you believe my husband used this one about getting a vasectomy? Completely against my wishes? A complete 180 from telling me the name he had picked out for his future son the first night we met? Yeah...&#039;cause the ZILLION places in the Bible (which he admits to not having read all the way through, but is very proficient at twisting to get/get out of whatever he currently wants) that mention Godly children and children are a blessing and all that stuff are just, y&#039;know, for other people. Bleargh!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot;When someone plays the G-card about something that benefits them, or about something they really want to do, or about something that makes them look good&#8230; Not so much.&quot;</p>
<p>EXACTLY. Can you believe my husband used this one about getting a vasectomy? Completely against my wishes? A complete 180 from telling me the name he had picked out for his future son the first night we met? Yeah&#8230;&#39;cause the ZILLION places in the Bible (which he admits to not having read all the way through, but is very proficient at twisting to get/get out of whatever he currently wants) that mention Godly children and children are a blessing and all that stuff are just, y&#39;know, for other people. Bleargh!!</p>
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		<title>By: Steph</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 20:29:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;God told me that I should ask you out.&quot;  Ummm.... what?  I do believe the very same guy who told me that also said those very same words to at least 2 of my other friends.  I think he got God confused with his hormones just a bit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot;God told me that I should ask you out.&quot;  Ummm&#8230;. what?  I do believe the very same guy who told me that also said those very same words to at least 2 of my other friends.  I think he got God confused with his hormones just a bit.</p>
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