#55. Getting a precise defintion of "virgin" from your youth minister.

Please keep in mind that this is not a site called “things that Christians do well” or “how to live a super holy life in 7 days.” It’s an honest reflection of the things we do and when I was a Christian teen I have to confess that I really wanted to know what exactly my youth minister meant when he said we should remain a “virgin.” Teens see things in black, white and one million shades of gray. So when I was told to remain holy and pure, I wanted to clarify that. I wanted to make sure I knew how many shades of gray existed between holding hands and getting in trouble. So countless youth group conversations were dedicated to understanding the fine nuances of the word virgin.