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It’s time to forgive yourself.

Misc March 20, 2013Comments

I hate my teeth.

In addition to root canals, cavities and other general mouth maladies, they are trying their best to go crooked.

Despite having braces three times, twice as a kid and once as an adult, they are refusing to stay in place. There is one tooth in particular that is trying to make a beeline to the back of my mouth.

I blame myself for this. I didn’t take care of my teeth as a kid. I didn’t brush well or rinse with Listerine or ever floss. I didn’t wear my head gear faithfully and lost my retainer. Other than deliberately chewing rocks, I’m not sure I could have been a bigger jerk to my teeth.

And now that I’m an adult, I’m trying to fix that, and it’s proving to be a bit of a challenge. I sat with a dentist in Atlanta who had assessed my mouth via molds and 3D x-rays. He had a plan drawn up for me.

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61 things 4 million people taught me about social media.

Social Media March 18, 2013Comments

I started my first site in 2001. I’ve made a lot of mistakes over the last few years but learned a lot too.

This Friday in Dallas, for the first time ever, I’m doing a free presentation of everything I’ve ever learned when it comes to social media. From starting a blog to growing Twitter, I’ll share everything.

The event is free, but there are only about 60 spots open.

If you want to be part of this special edition of the 5 club, we meet from 5AM-7AM and hustle on our dreams, then sign up today!

 

Give yourself this at least once a day.

Misc March 18, 2013Comments

I have a love/hate relationship with the show International House Hunters. I love the houses. I hate the people who are looking at them.

Maybe hate is too strong of a word, but I’m a little jealous of the people who are looking at them. The show is pretty simple: a real estate agent shows three houses to a couple to look at in some exotic market. Then, at the end, they buy one of them. And each episode is the same, with the buyers saying this:

“Well, we need a third house, and we’ve already got one in Turks and Caicos, so we thought we’d try Florence, Italy. My job allows me to travel internationally and do my work from coffee shops on cobble streets. We’ve got a budget of 4 million dollars and would like to be able to see the Duomo from our rooftop deck.”

And then they look at three houses and inevitably pick the most expensive one that was way outside of their budget. Once you’ve watched the International version, it’s impossible to be interested in the domestic version of the show. Once you’ve seen a couple scour the streets of Prague for an apartment that looks like a castle, it’s impossible to watch a couple look for a 2 bedroom fixer upper in Akron, Ohio.

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The only line you control.

Misc March 15, 2013Comments

Most of us think we need to know the finish line before we cross the starting line. We want life planned out, the risks removed, safety guaranteed.

But in this short video, I share the truth about finish lines and starting lines. (If you want to come to this event, there are still a handful of tickets available for Start Night Austin. Sign up today!)

How to create a “life list.”

Fear March 13, 2013Comments

Fear and doubt love the inside of your head and heart. In the quiet recesses, your fear gets to appear larger and more complex than it really is. It gets to cast shadows that are exaggerated and twisted until you feel you’re fighting King Kong, instead of a single monkey on your back. Do you know what fear fears? Paper.

Fear is terrified that, in the light of day, you’ll take notes about your life. Fear would rather you jumble and tangle your thoughts inside until they seem too large to deal with, until you say, “I don’t know where to start!” And so you stop before you even begin. But today, we’re going to build a list. And this list is simple.

I first worked on this list with a 22-year-old guy who came to the second Quitter Conference we held in Nashville. We had breakfast in Cracker Barrel, and five minutes into our conversation he told me this:

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The airline CEO teaches me a new idea.

Misc March 11, 2013Comments

When we start something new, we come up with goals. We want to make a certain amount of money or grow a business or get a book published. But one day, my friend Bob challenged my understanding of goals.

Bob started an airline. He told me that story at dinner, like that was a normal thing people just do. He said that he’s a lawyer, so he’s used to filling out paperwork and that’s all it takes to start an airline.

So he filled out all the forms in Canada, and then they reminded him that he needed a plane.

“Oh, that’s right!” He said, “So we got a plane put together. It was a beaver, one of those planes that can land on water. We painted it Krispy Kreme colors because we figured they knew what they were doing. We hired a pilot and made him wear an official uniform with a thin black tie, shoulder straps, black hat. The whole works. We had one ticket counter girl and we started making flights up and down the inlets of British Columbia.”

Apparently, starting an airline is one thing, growing it is a completely different thing, but Bob had a plan.

“We decided that our mission was going to be bringing free fresh fruit and free newspapers every morning to every hunting lodge and logging cabin in the area. That was it. Two years later, we had ten planes and ten pilots. We broke even. It didn’t make any money, but the goal wasn’t to make money. The goal was to be awesome. And it was!”

The goal was to be awesome.

What if that was enough in life? What if you didn’t have to have it all figured out? What if you didn’t have to know exactly what your dream was and how to achieve it? What if you didn’t have to be the perfect student, perfect boss, perfect parent or perfect anything?

What if your goal was to be awesome and that was enough?

How awesome would that be?

Excited?

Misc March 8, 2013Comments

Excited about your dream?

You better be, because the rest of the world is going to take cues from you.

You want us on board? You want support and help and cheers from the sidelines?

Be enthusiastic about your dream. You’ll be the first one, but you won’t be the last.

Source: i.imgur.com via Jon on Pinterest

 

Is it ever too late to dream?

Fear March 7, 2013Comments

One of fear’s favorite things to tell you is that it’s too late to dream.

You’ve missed your opportunity.

The window is closed.

The door is shut.

It’s too late.

But people like my friend Elaine don’t believe that. In fact, she’s living proof that it doesn’t matter when you were born; it matters when you decided to live. Here’s what she told me recently:

Jon, I was at the Franklin, TN  Start Night. (The next one is in Austin.) What a treat! I am 70 years old and am determined not to fall into what I have termed “recliner rot.”  This is a condition that seems to be affecting many people my age.  It is a condition characterized by  a mindset that is content with status quo. It seems to be all about comfort and ease and just coasting. I am so determined not to become a victim of that disease. I want the years I have left to be about more than myself. I am not into decorating the house, travel, buying a second home, garden clubs, plastic surgery, etc. There is nothing wrong with any of that. But, for me, it doesn’t work. I have a husband, children, and grandchildren, and they are a priority. I want to remain fit physically, so I can serve in whatever way I need to.  I love meeting new people, hearing their stories, and seeing if there is any way I can help them  to move past “going with the flow” and “going along to get along”.  It seems like people my age are not interested in taking a pilgrimage to “amazing.” As C.S. Lewis said, “We are satisfied with way too little when more is available.” Thank you for leading us to more. GO FORTH!

Elaine Ross

The next time fear tells you it’s too late, remember what Elaine would say about that, and keep dreaming.

How to be awesome in only 2 steps.

Fear March 6, 2013Comments

Time and money are the two biggest realities that shape your present circumstances. Think I’m wrong?

Tomorrow, tell your boss you’ve got a dream about your future and need to take a 3-month sabbatical to work on your road back to awesome. Let me know how that conversation goes. Tomorrow, stop paying your bills because you’ve got a big passion that needs your money instead and see how that works out.

But, like everything else in life, if you’ll make friends with your time and money, they’ll actually become two of your biggest assets, instead of your biggest limitations.

Chances are, right now, the size of your dream about the future is bigger than both the amount of your time and the amount of your money. Fear not, I am going to fix that problem right now. Ready? Here goes:

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Build your own planet.

Misc March 4, 2013Comments

I thought Aqualung was dead.

That sounds like the opening line to a comic book, but it’s not.

Aqualung is the name Matt Hales used when he started his musical career. But I thought he was dead, or had failed as a musician, because I hadn’t heard from him in a while.

His debut album in 2005 was fantastic and included the song “Brighter than Sunshine.” But for the last seven years, I didn’t hear anything about him and assumed his career had fallen apart. I was wrong and had forgotten one of the principles of awesome:

Awesome builds its own planet.

I was reminded of that when I read an article updating the life of Matt Hales:

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