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Somebody hating on your dream?

Quitter December 4, 2012Comments

What have I learned in the last two years about haters and dreams?

1. Hate only gets loud when you do things that matter. It won’t bother you if you decide to be average.

2. Some people take it as a personal attack to themselves when you work on your dream because it reminds them they are not working on theirs.

3. Hate is inevitable. Your response is up for grabs.

And if you forget all of those things, at least remember the image below, which is brilliant and true.

If you’re going to dream, you’re going to bump into some hate. Don’t quit just because you do.

Dreams never look the same to everyone.

Quitter December 3, 2012Comments

When most people pick up a comic book, they see a comic book. (Or a “graphic novel,” if you want to be all fancy about it.)

It’s printed like a comic book.

It’s bound like a comic book.

It feels like a comic book.

But that’s not what Dexter Jacobs saw when he picked up an issue of Daredevil. He saw something completely different.

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The big reward of a small act of bravery.

Leadership/ Quitter November 30, 2012Comments

I fly a lot in the fall and spring. (Yes, like a migrating monarch butterfly, which is probably what you were thinking.)

A few weeks ago, while at the Nashville airport, I walked up to the security line.

There were three lines open for the station where the guy checks your ID and your boarding pass. The one on the left had 25 people in it. The one in the middle had 25 people in it. The one on the right? It was empty.

Nobody was in the one on the right, which I thought was weird.

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How to take your picture in front of a tornado.

Quitter November 28, 2012Comments

This is Audra Thomas. She is from Beaver City, Nebraska. Her mother Marla took this photo in 1989.

If you squint, you can just make out an F1 tornado in the background.

Did you see it? It might take a minute, you have to really look.

Marla was fine that afternoon. Her mother was fine. The tornado destroyed a barn on their property, but no one was hurt. (You can read the whole story here.)

The thing that struck me about this photo is Marla’s casualness. She’s standing perfectly still like she’s posing for a school photo. If she was here today, she’d probably tell you that taking a photo in front of a tornado was easy:

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This took me 36 years to learn.

Quitter November 26, 2012Comments

I used to think my purpose was to write a blog.

And then I wrote one and realized it wasn’t.

I used to think my purpose was to speak at events.

And then I spoke at some and realized it wasn’t.

I used to think my purpose was to write a book.

And then I wrote one and realized it wasn’t.

I used to think my purpose was to make money.

And then I made some and realized it wasn’t.

Those are short sentences, but they took me 36 years to live.

What changed? What did I learn?

The joy of serving other people.

I learned that helping change somebody else’s life is always more rewarding than obsessing about your own.

I got to be part of the Quitter Conference and helping other people chase their purpose, and I was completely surprised to find that became mine.

The funny thing is that I didn’t stop doing all those things I just mentioned. In fact, if anything, now I write more blogs, speak more places, publish more books, and make more money. But now they matter. Now they’re not about me. Now they have purpose.

This simple image, that I did not create but do love, sums it up perfectly.

What’s purpose? I’ll let the picture finish the story:

 

What focus looks like.

Quitter November 9, 2012Comments

Dunking is fun, but if you refuse to focus on the little things that get you the ball in the first place, you’ll never get to.

Focus on the little things. They tend to make a big difference.

 

Question:
What are the little details you have to focus on for your dream?

The power of 2.

Quitter November 7, 2012Comments

A few weeks ago, before the Quitter Conference, I realized it would be awesome if a Quitter built the stage.

As I’ve mentioned a few times, I want to be intentional about creating opportunities where Quitters can shine. And this felt like a good one.

I hoped someone out there would have a dream they wanted to share with everyone at the conference and everyone who reads this blog.

So I wrote a post about it and 21 people from around the country sent in some ideas.

We picked a couple from Chicago named Jim and Joy DeLaere.

And what they did was absolutely ridiculous. Watch this video and see for yourself:

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